
Selling your home and almost everything you own isn’t something you do overnight. It’s a process—one that’s equal parts exciting and overwhelming. For us, this is going to be the key to unlocking our freedom and adventure. My husband and I have been with each other for over 20 years and with 3 kids aged 11, 10 and 8, we have a lot, and I mean, A LOT, of stuff. It’s just stuff though. And we can’t take it to the grave with us. We know that all we really need is each other, and some essentials, of course. Here’s how we are going to make it happen.
Step 1: Declutter Like Never Before
We are going to start by asking ourselves one question: Do we really need this? Spoiler alert: most of the time, the answer will be no. From clothes we haven’t worn in years to kitchen gadgets collecting dust, we have realised just how much “stuff” we have been holding onto. We also need to involve the kid in this step. The kids will be able to choose what treasures they would like to hold onto.
Our rule: If it doesn’t serve a purpose or spark joy for our travels, it goes.
Step 2: Sort, Sell, Donate
We have created three categories:
✅ Sell – Furniture, electronics, and anything with resale value.
✅ Donate – Items in good condition that can help someone else.
✅ Keep – Essentials for travel (and a few sentimental treasures).
We plan to use Facebook Marketplace, Gumtree, and local buy/swap groups to sell quickly.
Step 3: Preparing the House for Sale
Decluttering will make the house look bigger and brighter—perfect for attracting buyers. This is a massive job that we have started but still have a lot to do. We have created a list of small things that need fixing, some painting and gardening. Gardening is the biggest job. With over 17 acres, a lot of work is to be done in this space, including planting some trees, an endless amount of weeding and slashing the paddocks. Below is our backyard, lot’s of work to do here!

Step 4: Emotional Prep
This will be by far the hardest part. Letting go of a home filled with memories won’t be easy. But we need to remind ourselves: memories live in us, not in walls. What’s ahead—new experiences, new cultures, and time together—will be worth every goodbye.
Step 5: The Freedom Ahead
Every item we get rid of, I know it will feel like shedding a layer of stress. Less stuff means less responsibility. Then, we will be free to roam, learn, and live without the weight of “things.”
Thinking about doing something similar? Follow our journey for tips, real talk, and inspiration as we trade possessions for experiences.

